I get asked on a regular basis what I eat. I post up various foods I like, recipes too but what people find most helpful is to be able to 'look over my shoulder' so to speak to see what and when I eat on a daily basis. And I agree that can be very helpful.
However, before I jump in with the 'what and when' let me take a step back. If you are looking to lose weight while you add muscle, you should eat about 10 calories for every 1 pound of body weight if you are a woman. If you are a man you can make that calculation 11 or 12 calories per pound depending on your existing muscle mass. As you shape up, you can increase that rate. Of course you'll also be losing weight so your calories, in total, may not change that much. If you are trying to build muscle (highly recommended) try to eat at least .8 grams of protein for every pound of body weight. If you are a man, eat between 1.0 and 1.5 grams of protein per pound of body weight.
So for me now, if I consume 11x my body weight, (11 x 136 = 1500 approximate calories) I can still lose about 1/2 pounds per week unless I've gone hog wild on my cheat day. I am eating 1500 - 1650 calories a day Monday - Saturday and eating whatever I want on Sundays. I am eating between .9 and 1.0 grams of protein per lb right now and I'm really shaping up.
I tend to eat the most carbs and calories for lunch. I buy organic dairy products, and almost all of my fresh veggies and fruits organic also. I buy cage free high Omega eggs (but not organic) and some meats are purchased organic. If you are a woman with a lot of belly fat, I encourage you to eat as much organic foods as you can find and your budget can afford.
Here are two days of eating at a macro nutrient level (protein, carbs, fiber, fats & calories)

My pre-workout shake is 1/2 a Shakeology shake (I like Green Berry). This is a fantastic meal replacement shake from Beachbody which I use to help make sure that what I may miss in fruit and veggie servings I can make up with the phyto nutrients in this shake. I tend to take the other half as one of my optional snacks and I may add a few peanuts or walnuts or almonds (just a few). Post workout I'm drinking a chocolate Myofusion shake with a cup of skim (fat free) organic milk. I also drink a half serving of this as my pre bedtime shake.
Sample Lunch 1:
2 spicy black bean veggie burgers
1 serving steemed corn.
1 cup organic 2% fat milk
Sample Lunch 2:
3/4 baked beans with sauce drained off.
2 Hebrew National Low Fat Beef Franks
1/2 organic apple
1 cup organic 2% fat milk
Sample Dinner 1:
Meatloaf no gravy
1 1/2 cups steamed brocoli
Sample Dinner 2:
Broiled Samon with cajun spices
1 1/2 cups vegtable medely
Sample Dinner 3:
Chicken Lentil Vegtable Soup (homemade)
Salad (organic lettuce & tomatoes) with diet organic Caesar dressing













. I can easily correct this.